There have been moments in my life I have shed tears, some through heartache or tragedy, but mostly because of Happiness. I've realized through my journey that, "Tears are the words the heart can't express."
Tears, over time, have been given a bad reputation. It's been a sign of weakness or a show of uncontrollable emotions. My tears have given me relief....a way to release and allow my emotions to pour out of me. So, whether you feel like crying because of hurt or happiness, let it all pour out! There's no reason to hold it all in. It's toxic anyways to allow your emotions to build up inside you, even if they are the happy ones.
Today, I had happy tears!
Reason 1. Our 2 year old daughter, Mia, tolerated her speaking valve (Passy Muir) for nearly 45 minutes! She did so well that it didn't bother her one bit as she played blocks and cars with her brother, Noa. She did her funny laugh and made sound. She enjoyed hearing herself and continued to make more sound. This brought me to tears! Not the sobbing kind, but the kind when your eyes fill up and you can't hold them back.
We've waited 2 years to experience this moment. Having a child with a trach who can not vocalize is surely a unique experience. When most parents would have experienced hearing their child at this age squeal in delight, say "Ma Ma" or "Da Da" and even cry, these are "normal" things Hugo and I have yet to experience with Mia. This is why this moment made me so happy and tearful! It's a blessing and it will forever change my life. This journey has been life-changing.
In the next few posts, we'll be sharing our precious and unforgettable moments which brought us to happy tears. Today, let it all pour out! Give your heart a chance to express itself without words. If it's the hurt kind, just release and let it all go. You'll feel 100% better. Holding it in was probably making you feel worse. And if it's the happy kind, go look at your silly face in the mirror and enjoy every bit of it!
When was the last time you had a good cry and what did you learn from it? Look forward to hearing from you.
Many Blessings....
Roxanne and Hugo ~ Believe Achieve
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Further Reading:
Our Miracle of Life Story - Believe Achieve Hugo and Roxanne
American Idol - Mia's Story
Happy tears are my favorite kind. I just had my share a few weeks ago when I met up with an old childhood friend. Two grown women sobbing and laughing. You should have seen us!
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you and your family for more unforgettable moments like this one. :-)
Sincerely,
Sally from CM
Hi Sally!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for coming over from CM! It's wonderful to have you here. :-)
Sounds like you and your friend had a terrific reunion filled with joyful tears. We bet it's a day you'll never forget.
Thank you for sharing your experience and sending us more blessings.
Many Blessings....
Roxanne and Hugo ~ Believe Achieve
Hi Hugo and Roxanne .. that's such wonderful news .. no wonder tears welled up - and you must be looking forward to so many more noises and squeals from Mia. I really look forward to hearing more positive news.
ReplyDeleteMum & I laugh instead of crying .. though I may have tears in my eyes, which my Ma cannot have now, but at least we laugh together even in times of difficulties.
I'm just so pleased for you and your new two year old little life .. I'm looking forward to the next posts ..
Hilary: Positive Letters
Hi Hilary!
ReplyDeleteIt's so important to laugh as well! In fact, after the happy tears, there are always many smiles and laughter. It makes the moment even more unforgettable!
Thank you so much for your comments. Sending lots of positive energy your way!
Many Blessings....
Roxanne and Hugo ~ Believe Achieve
That's wonderful!! Thank & Praise GOD! happiest tears in my eyes...wished I lived closer to you guys. Kiss & Hug both for me..Lol!
ReplyDelete~Mom
OMG!!! That is definitely worth crying about! Brought happy tears to my eyes!! It will only go uphill from here. Hang on to these precious moments!!!
ReplyDeleteWow, thank you so much for sharing this touching moments of happy tears with us. You two are amazing parents.
ReplyDeleteThank you,
Giovanna Garcia
Imperfect Action is better than No Action
Hugo & Roxanne,
ReplyDeleteNice article as always. Your post reminded me when my father came back from hospital and my mother was glad crying at the same time laughing. My father was such a unemotional guy. He did not show his emotion, but my mother was feeling what I was not feeling that time.
Thank you for your sharing.
Shaw Funami
Fill the Missing Link
Hi Mom,
ReplyDeleteMia and Noa are sending Hugs & Kisses back to you!
Many Blessings....
Roxanne ~ Believe Achieve
Hi Victoria,
ReplyDeleteThank you always for your encouraging words. We, too, only see it going uphill from here. In fact, she just had another successful procedure that we look forward to sharing with everyone!
Many Blessings....
Roxanne ~ Believe Achieve
Hi Giovanna,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for being with us through our incredible journey. We're blessed to have you in our lives. Your friendship has been a wonderful gift.
Many Blessings....
Roxanne and Hugo ~ Believe Achieve
Hi Shaw,
ReplyDeleteIt's so wonderful to have happy tears. I'm glad our post brought back memories.
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us. It means alot to us.
See you again soon.
Many Blessings....
Roxanne and Hugo ~ Believe Achieve